Originally Posted by LoveMyAHusband

Thank you for all the practical advice!! I am trying so hard to be ok with this, but it’s been incredibly difficult. Things were so good in the couple months before I asked him to leave (essentially we only had 1 really bad month and 4 not great months in the the entire 2.5 year relationship of being together nearly 24/7 through lockdowns and remote work and a ton of wonderful travel) - that a whole lot of good and not a lot of bad. I really, really miss him SO MUCH. But he hasn’t talked to me in a couple days, so I think he fell off the bandwagon again, again confirming the right choice, I think. But then I wonder if I’d let him stay if he would’ve found it easier to stay strong. Gosh, this is SO HARD.