Originally Posted by
vision2023 
At this moment he is working so hard to do everything right. It honestly is very frustrating for me bc he NEVER did these things in the past…grocery shop, laundry, clean. And he has been going on walks! I KNOW this is temporary. It always stops. I’ve also come to realize that there is more to my unhappiness with the relationship. We really don’t want the same things. I want to travel, stay active, perhaps save for a second home or update our current home. He has ZERO interest in this drinking or not. He wants to stay home and do nothing.
No one can tell what the future holds. So whether his sobriety is temporary or he finds a way to remain in recovery, no one knows.
What you do know is that you and he really don't want the same things. So this suddenly becomes less about his sobriety, and primarily about you no longer being compatible because you don't want the same things.