OK, here's my question. I have been working really hard on getting a life and detaching, and I don't get how to fit in all the "big" reality issues. For instance, my friend, who incidentally comes from a whole family of alcoholics!, really thinks we should do an intervention. Maybe she is working through some savior issues of her own. I don't know. I am sort of in who-gives-a-s*&^@ mode right now (BTW, Is that a stage or something?), but I said OK, but in spring, so that if he doesn't want to go into treatment I can move forward with selling the house and getting on with my life and getting my kids out of that situation.
Then there's the question of custody? In my state everyone I know has 50%/50% custody. It's very much the norm. Should I be keeping a diary or something to prepare?
Do you see what I'm talking about? There's inside work I need to do but this other stuff has to be dealt with too and I'm not sure how to go about it.
