Old 10-04-2022, 01:53 PM
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Red78
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Originally Posted by Dee74 View Post
Sorry to see you go TZ, but the doors here swing both ways Todd - we're here if you ever need us

It was a huge ask Red with all those activities. I declined a lot of invites my first year...the things I did go to I always ALWAYS had a stay sober plan like this:
https://www.soberrecovery.com/forums...val-guide.html (Social Occasion Survival Guide)

and always an escape plan if my sober plan was weakening....
It was a big ask and I essentially got through it, the last part of going to the pub was a mistake and I knew it as soon as I found out we were going.
I'm proud I managed to do what I did though and learn what not to do next time which will be easier as there will always be an escape route if I'm here in my home town..
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