Originally Posted by
RAL 
Being scared in a relationship and unable to communicate is concerning. The issue of talking about your not drinking sounds as though it's just one thing in a long line of issues.
I hope you are able to take steps to put yourself first and protect yourself . I know fir me when I stopped drinking for a few years it made me reasses my marriage and stop putting up with a relationship that wasnt good for me
That was the driving factor for me to give up drinking, so I can see through the fog and make a real decision with a clear head..