Originally Posted by
Strawbz11 
It's just not something that entered my mind. He was abusive and poor with money. He smoked weed. I'm just trying so hard to think did I miss something. People always were shocked he wanted tobacco every other day. He was certainly not that much of a heavy smoker. I guess I'm thinking was he using my money to get other drugs! I feel really stupid knowing he was able to do that behind my back.
Well he wasn't buying the cleaning products, that's for sure.
What other clues could there be? The missing teaspoons. Sometimes people cook drugs on teaspoons. Who brought up the missing teaspoons, you or him? If it was him then it's possible he/his friends were using them and he forgot.
Razor blades anywhere? Used to scrape the drugs in to sections.
Pens with no ink cartridge in them, straws (for snorting).
Burnt foil used to heat up the drug then smoke it.
The biggest tell is the person. What are they like. He doesn't sound like a nice person at all. Moody, abusive, his friends have addictions and he is in contact on a really regular basis with his ex and other women. This is not someone you want to know.
Don't feel stupid. Liars lie.