Originally Posted by
Hodd 
Thanks, DriGuy. I’m not sure what’s best for both of us yet. I do 100% know it’s the right choice for both of us to not go to court. All I can do is be as fair and honest as possible.
My ex and I had one lawyer. Some people advise that each should have their own lawyer, but I think it may be mostly lawyers who advise that. Our lawyer said he would represent us both unless we wanted to argue, in which case he would bow out. Some divorces are ugly, and then you need lawyers, and everything gets uglier. The divorce is traumatic enough. You don't need to add to it. I think you are on the right track.