Hi and welcome Jason
You've found a place of great support.
It must be difficult when your partner is away - there's a lot of what ifs and worries that fill your head.
I'm sure the same applies to her.
She may be making new friends but y'know it's not a holiday camp.
It'd be hard work.
Her therapist is giving good reports tho.
She may indeed need time to process this - she may also be wondering why you went through the therapist....even tho your reasoning seems sound to me, she might be worrying about things too, just like you are.
If you trust her, I'd give her space for now?
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