8 years!!!!!!! That's amazing!!!!
I get the single thing. My first long term relationship was from age 15-20, the next from 21-30, and the next 30-39. Being single and 40 was not something I was planning for. But you are ABSOLUTELY right - focus on yourself. The right person will come along when you are ready....at least that's what I tell myself incessantly when I'm lonely lol.
Congrats again!!!!!!