Originally Posted by
Bodhi02 
The one friend, y, criticized the way I’m being sober that I should be making amends and stop avoiding. she’s had a month of not drinking before so she gets it I should still come to events and not cut people off or isolate myself.
This "friend" Bodhi, who thinks she "gets it" obviously doesn't- no one gets to dictate how another person gets sober.
Good for you standing strong and not wavering when faced with this litany of what I would consider pettiness and nosiness. Maybe it's just my jaded view, but it feels like they are either searching for "the dirt" or trying to drag you back to the dark side. The only thing you need now is support- and it doesn't seem to be coming from that direction.
Onward to better things. Anyone meant to stay your friend will, time will tell.