Originally Posted by
PeacefulWater12 
Firstly big congrats on ten years sober. That's huge.
Your question about whether you should trust him? What is your gut instinct telling you?
I encourage you to step back and decide what you would like in life and whether his behaviour is compatible with that.
Glad you posted and expressed your thoughts.
Thank you. My gut is telling me he is lying but I go back and forth. I have read a lot of the stickies and seeing some red flags. He honestly does not seem to think he will struggle and I can relate to him thinking he is invincible because he feels better physically. I want to trust him but don't see how I can hence the question about the test. It is very hard to have a serious conversation with him because he makes everything into a joke. It is actually one of the things I like about him because we have had a drama free relationship but this is really serious.