Sorry for the delay in replying. I am going to court on Monday.
I have tried to block him, but what am I supposed to do, also change my job? He knows where I work, he has emailed me there, and can call there as well. The more I tried to block him, the more he finds ways to contact me. He even gave my name to his new employer as his spouse to contact. So when he went missing in his alcoholism for days, I got contacted by the employer and by the police.
I also find that the more I try to block him the angrier he gets and, to be honest, that is scary. I am hoping that a court order will de-escalate his need to control me. I no longer believe that blocking is the option. I need to protect myself.