I get that. I know Scorpios very, very well.
However....feel free to smack me (see what I did there
) but I do not think our free's situation is about holding a grudge.
I think it is about her stepdaughter being accountable to her (the stepdaughter's) dad. She is being disrespectful. That is not cool.
I was more all about an apology: sorry to waste your money and mess up your plans dad.