You'd be very welcome in the Under One thread BD. Theres a good mix of new and older term members there.
You could also start a thread in the Mens forum if you particularly wanted a male perspective.
A drama free experience though? Unlikely, man.
We have a lot of members and a lot of them are in pain, scared or suffering some kind of post traumatic trauma.
You can definitely learn not to pick up someone elses drama tho
Use the place in a way that gives greatest benefit to you
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