Hi wendy101,wow!! I can Identfy,with pain pills!! I ve been taken vicondon for 4yrs,now I've had 4-operation on my right shoulder,if you don't take them as derected then your abuseing them like your husband.If he not willing to turn it over then you as his wife has a choice,you can suggest to him to seek recovery or tell him for his best that you can't handle anymore of his lying and you want a divorce!!,if that does'nt wake him up!!-then stick to your guns and make that decsion do enable him do whats best for your children,hopefully that will make him come to his sencesor not,Its sound like he needs to go to meetings-NAmeetings.