[QUOTE=LovelyKaya33333;7720694]
That is why my exAH could go from being in an argument one night to cuddling 30 minutes later without even discussing what we had just went through.... His mean words didn't hold weight...nor did his positive words... I look at it like they are 5 year olds... What has kinda helped me is watching the show intervention. It has made me see it from a non personal view. /QUOTE]
my exABF did the insta switch too. He would go from rage/hate to love/cuddles etc and back again several times. It took about 10 beers to get him to that point. After a few more blackout time. He would change personas and clothes a few times. His drunk sprees would last a day or two a few times a week. Same exact movie again and again. Like Groundhog Day. I knew what he was going to do before he did. That was the source of most of our fights. I was supposed to forget and forgive anything that happened during these times. Never speak if it again. occasionally I could but it didn’t make much difference