I have tried to set boundaries but they fall on deaf ears. I am always there for her but I can’t take it any more and the guilt I feel is so bad. My husband is so fed up with everything. I am not present in my own life. But all I can think of is how not having contact with her will affect her! What is she doing now? What if me not always being there for her like before send her over the edge, or makes matters worse. Is it just better to live with the emotional blackmail or not. I’m so confused