I don't think the issue is judging or not judging. I think the issue is whether or not you want to be friends with her again. I certainly don't require myself to be friends with people. I can be cordial with lots of people and I often am, even with people I have no interest in being friends with. And to be honest, there are people that I just don't like. Some are just plain offensive. I've patched up broken friendships when I felt like it, and sometimes, but not always, it even worked out. Friendship is a special relationship to me, but it may be semantics. I don't consider Facebook friends to be actual friends, although some of them could be if I were even on Facebook. Friendship as a special relationship just doesn't happen with most people. We choose our friends.