Hi Wind Pines
I had to stop letting my folks ‘help’ out.
They would help out by doing what they thought I needed.
It started in my childhood with my disability anf them trying to keep me in cotton wool, and reached its peak in my ‘wasted years’ when I had no money…but I’m not that guy anymore.
I’m a fully functioning adult. I’m not rich but I’m comfortable.
If I can’t afford something I wait til I can.
It saves a lot of arguments
D