Originally Posted by
velma929 
I stayed with my husband because I was concerned about finances if I left.
Let me tell you, I earned every penny I got. And --- had he lived, he'd have spent it all by now on booze and cigarettes. If he hadn't died, we'd be in dire straights by now.
see Velma, I get that and I would do that. But the kids would cut me out, and he’s never going to be bad enough to die before me. He’s too narcissistic and takes too good care of himself. He quit over a year ago due to an ultimatum but he’s still a narcissist and nasty.