Thank you for your input, I really appreciate it! Yes she has been confronted by many individuals, ex-husband, boyfriend and Mother, but she will not listen at all.. My sister is "SPOILD" when younger and now, so she is very selfish. So it pretty much started when she divorced her high school sweetheart. I'm really just concerned about my mother and what steps she should take in the business and her personal life.. Her goal was to work one more year then retire and move back to the midwest to live the rest of her days.. Shes very concerned about the children, she feels if she leaves now she will be abandoning them...