Old 05-08-2021, 09:13 PM
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phebe
Sober Date: March 10, 2013
 
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Originally Posted by Willow68 View Post
Hugs Phebe ❤️

I get the sadness too, I feel it often. I feel it especially today, Mother’s Day, missing my beloved Mum like crazy.
Sending you love, and hoping the sadness lifts for you soon. Well done on not drinking.
I’m only back to day 6 after my last mishap, but drinking doesn’t solve anything, alcohol tries to trick us into thinking it will help erase the sadness, but it only makes the sadness worse.
If we sit with it, it will lift of it’s own accord. And I have hope that long term sobriety will help lift the ongoing underlying sadness of depression. Because I think alcohol has a lot to answer for, in contributing to causing the sadness and depression in the first place.
​​​​​​​(((Willow)))

Thank you. For us, I’m going to hug my mom extra special for both of us tomorrow.❤️

Blessings.
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