ScottFromWI

Every addict is a "high functioning" at some point in their continuum. Sort of like we were all able to moderate our drinking at one point ;-) We also are extremely good at the art of deception/persuasion and making others think we are "high functioning".

The real conundrum for both the addict and those around them is that the bad times always come with the good times - so when you sign up, you sign up for the whole package - the lying, cheating, sneaking - all of that is something you need to accept and expect along with the good times in between. The addict has the same argument with themselves and their relationship with alcohol/drugs. They know full well what consequences are, but their love for the high/buzz/escape makes them choose it over whatever may happen next.