Originally Posted by
Anna 
I agree with Scott. You could try couples counselling if you are both open to that. It could be helpful. Have you had a specific conversation with your wife about the mental abuse you feel? If so, and she doesn't see a need to change, then that's something you might have to accept.
Had many conversations about it. People have different ways of coping mines was abusing my prescription opiates. As you know Anna I haven't drank alcohol or did any illegal recreational drugs in 8 years. Today is day 313 off opiates and commitment to myself and my recovery. Its been brought up many times and she has never followed through. Her coing skills it shopping social media . ihave been to multiple doctors helping me over the years. She has been one for OCD and didn't like what he said and the end.