Sorry to hear things are not getting better for you
I too married a man I would want to be with for the zombie apocalypse........it was a gradual change.....but he's one of the zombies now.
There's nothing you can do to make your husband change. Your anger will not do YOU any good. If it is not addressed it will make you ill. He will do what he does regardless. You can be angry, ill, or ignore him, it doesn't matter.
Have you tried al-anon?