Pizza, I did not mean to appear condescending at all- my thought process
is that there are many capacities that a mental health professional can
work in and I did not want to assume anything. I stand by my belief though
as narcissists being some of the most difficult to treat. For example, I don't
believe your husband will ever believe he is a narc and likely thinks you
are calling him names and always picking on him and insulting him and it
only serves as more fire for his awful behavior towards you and the kids.
I truly hope you will continue posting here, sometimes things are lost when
speech and facial expressions are not seen/heard, but everyone here wants
what is best for you and your children and only wish to help..