The comment was from the widow of an alcoholic. I wouldn’t wish that on anyone, but she did seem to resent me for stopping drinking before I had serious health problems. For the record, I was obese and had a fatty liver from drinking - hardly a picture if health.
And whilst she’s had a bad time, she has never been an addict. The offhand comment that a bottle of wine a day isn’t an issue could be very dangerous.
Stay here, Mizz