Good morning Jans.
I used to be super uncomfortable and feel awkward not drinking. Some people would say “you’re not drinking?” And I’d respond with a no or a no thanks. If they asked why or come back with something like that I would say “I just don’t want one... but I will have a...”
rarely did anyone push it. If they did, I would go with what was said here before “ I’m taking a break”... and usually those people are having some issues with alcohol themselves.
over time, no one says anything because they see me as a person who doesn’t drink all the time when everyone else is. It’s very liberating.
as time goes on, I feel more comfortable saying no thanks. I enjoy my soda. Enjoy being clear headed. Enjoy not saying something stupid or making a fool of myself. Enjoy being a role model for my kids. Enjoy the conversation and have a nice time.
...and I always enjoy waking up hangover free...ready to slay the day!!!
have a great day everyone!
B