This isn’t just about drinking, do you think? You mentioned other women in you last post as well.
I think you need to contact you local women’s center for advice, resources to find out your rights, and see about legal services for free or at reduced cost. It is confidential and they will advocate for you.
Taking action will be more comforting and useful then worry and waiting to hear from him. Also, do you have family or friends to call for support / help? Isolation is not good in this situation as he has taken power by removing you from employment and your previous home.
You can’t make him come back—and he doesn’t sound like he deserves you—but you can legally get support for your kids. You need to be strong for them even though you are understandably hurting a lot right now.
