Thank you, everyone, for your responses. I think I was using the excuse of waiting to hear the updates on rehab and start dates as my reason to stay in touch, but what I'm doing is delaying the inevitable of cutting contact and attempting to move on. Things may be different when he works through the program and integrates back into his old life sober (and can do this/not do this), but I guess only time will tell.... if I continue as I am I feel like I'll be stuck in limbo. To all of you that are in recovery, you are very strong people and I wish you a continued road of recovery and peace along the way. Thank you