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Old 11-16-2020, 07:09 AM
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Charon
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Toots - I am up in the air. We met with Mirko (my therapist) last wednesday and Mrs announced that things have been better (AKA I'm being nice and doing (mostly) what she wants). So she is conflicted and has stopped preparing to move out. I also felt jumped upon because Mirko put the load on me - I have to realize that my dark periods are part of me, I have to fight them, I can't let them make me react to things outside myself. Yeah, right. What about all the things/habits Mrs has and does that really are inconsiderate, passive/agressive, and that push my buttons. Why does no one but me have to change and accomodate everyone else? End of rant. Sorry.

On a happy note - while two of the orchids have gone by, the Dendrobium (white & dark pink) will be blooming for a long time yet and two more have opened. A really large "blue" Cattleya with a very nice scent, and a yellow mini-cat with no scent.

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