HI Bam
I wish you guys all the best during this trying time.
Women don't metabolize alcohol as well as men generally speaking. It may have appeared she din't drink much but then it doesn't take much drinking to cause serious damage to her. I say, pick out some recover plan to do and stick around here at SR.
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