Thank you all for your responses. The harsh truth is what I need to hear. It is just so sad to see someone who has dealt with tragedy struggle so much. It really hurts to see it. To know the kind of human he is who has turned to alcohol to cope with his grief and his circumstances. Nothing really has changed in the two years I’ve known him. I have come to the realization it may never change. Truly at this point, the main thing I do for him is pray for him. That maybe his late wife will “get through to him” somehow. He deserves far more and better in his life than he’s giving himself. Thank you all again.