trailmix

ducky, were you able to have a look at the threads I posted on the first page of this thread? Those are some first hand experiences of counselling.

I kind of wonder if marriage counselling isn't kind of jumping ahead a little too far? Your Husband really needs this time to work on himself and that should be his focus for some time to come perhaps? Yours should, perhaps, be yourself and thinking about what you want and what makes you most happy and content?

Although you are a unit, his alcoholism (this is his fifth shot at recovery) should be paramount for him right now and perhaps anything else will just have to wait? How would you feel about that?