Would she agree to marriage counselling?
Perhaps she isn't ready yet, just like you weren't ready to get sober until you did. I know that there is a tendency to want everything yesterday and also to want to "draw a line in the sand" and start afresh. Let me tell you, that was THE most irritating thing to hear. I felt totally invalidated when my ex would say that. Not saying that you are doing it, but worth bearing in mind.
Do the next right thing, keep your side of the street clean and be patient.