i expect that it shall take a lot longer than two weeks, and i have found the strength to accept that, having always been an impetuous person.
There is also the practical issues that we have to attempt to deal with - who stays where, how much do we tell family, at the moment we are existing in Limbo - I attend meetings, sometimes my wife is able to be in the same room as me in the evening, and other times (last night) she broke down in tears and fury at me...
That at the moment is the hard thing to contend with; the pain i cause by staying which is unpredictable and the fact that she is struggling with our daughter and chores when i am not there, as well as not seeing any kind of improvement in me in my absence...