Single mom here. Sobriety is oh-so worth it.
Key for me early on was changing my routine. I started shopping for the week to avoid picking up my bottle(s) each day. I pre-planned and pre-made meals to avoid cooking/drinking. Walking in the evening when I would have been drunk on the couch. I got back into yoga (I liked sarahbethyoga on youtube when I was starting out). I had tons of fruit cold and ready when I felt an urge to drink.
I’ve lost that flushed, red face, lost weight, got in shape, and feel better than I have in years. And most important...I was fully present for DS as he grew into young adulthood.
It’s tough, but so is anything worth having. Best wishes!
-bora