I have 2 years and 3 months of sobriety and even now the thought of a drink can pop into my head. Not that strange really, I am an alcoholic after all. But as Dee said it is what I do with that thought. It is pretty easy for me to dismiss those type of thoughts now, it's when I let them sit there for too longI that I start giving them any power. So you did the right thing and you shared about it too. Amazing well done.
With regards to your wife, I have learnt in recovery how powerless I am over other people and what they are going through but because I am sober I can just be there for them and support them. Exactly what you are doing right now for your wife. How beautiful is that.
It sounds like you are doing an amazing job to me
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