Maddoc, I think you really need to focus on why you find this type of person attractive, it's not healthy. He sounds so crazy and twisted that I really fear for your safety, even if he is not violent things are clearly escalating. This man will drag you down with him. I am saying this from my heart and not to be harsh but you choosing this person is really more about the work you need to do then his. What would you tell your daughter or sister who was involved with this kind of person? Please take care of yourself and block him. ((hugs))