Originally Posted by Maddoc78

It's probably messed up but what hurts the most is the accusation of cheating...& it was just such a crude way...I have only slept with three partners in my life and for him to just completely call me a liar about sometime that, it breaks my heart more than his drinking or mind games. I also do recognize it for what it is—-deflection. I found those balled up jeans and panties after we had been part a week and told him “ok fine you slept with someone. Jut admit it and tell me who” and he denied denied denied. Now he is saying the same to me...