I’m not going to blame all of his very, very bizarre behavior on “just” being an alcoholic. I’m an alcoholic, so I feel justified in pointing out that he’s waaaaay beyond the pale when it comes to substance abuse causing these problems.
I think he’s worse than a sociopath and seriously, where’s the woman missing her panties and jeans??
He obviously purposely put them there for you to see.
And again, why does he want you to call his ex-wife or whatever she is?? I think you mentioned they have an autistic child. (Double the points for him being a total ******* if he really does and causing his family more stress, btw). He’s addicted to causing drama and turmoil. Next time he threatens to kill himself, call 911. Let him have some fun, dramatic time in a mandatory 72 hour lockdown.
Oh and tell the cops about women’s clothing being strewn around his house.
Good luck. I hope you run as fast as you can from this....person.