Hi Madoc,
They pull you back in cause it easier for them. They already know that you have gone along with the lies they have told. They don't like change or people that question them. To them it's easier to lie and manipulate then move on. It's only when you stood your ground (way to be strong
) that they do their about face and become mean and hateful.
You showed you were not going to let him manipulate or lie to you anymore. You are stronger then you realize. Don't let the little slip with going back to him bring you down. Focus on moving toward to a better life that you deserve. Keep being strong and have a good night.