Originally Posted by
SparkleKitty 
He is whatever he is. You may never know the truth.
My time was better spent trying to figure why I kept going back to touch the stove, why I resisted accepting how it was, and to a degree, why I thought such an unhealthy relationship was something I deserved.
Indeed
If someone asks you to put your hand on a table and then slams it with a hammer, and they ask again and again and you are ok with it again and again what do you think the outcome will be??