I hear you love.
s
OK....confused is good, in my mind. Confused means not sure, not certain.
I think your wife may be at the stage where her heart and mind are not in the same place....if I was you, I would let her mind catch up.
As she sees you continue on this path while we are all stuck at home....and that is going to be at least two more months (I think).....she may well stop blocking the warm feelings that are not in line with the decision she made to end things.
I think that is what the coldness is about....not allowing herself to be warm and caring to you because well, all of the stuff you know. But that doesn't mean she isn't feeling caring....that hug last week....just perhaps it is all too confusing for her right now, as she said.
Just be you.....be this way, the awesome man you are being (so there is a perfect reason for staying sober right there) and you never know. By the time we come out of this virus you may not be separating.
s xx ❤️