Honestly i don't know if i can do that. He stirs up so much anger, resentment and frustration in me. I know love and tolerance is our code but this is a man who has no plan to get sober and will remain how he is for the rest of his life. I can pray for him though. I was told by someone in the rooms that if you pray for someone for 2 weeks it will help to allieviate the resentment.