Just a quick update.
The kids (and furbabies) and I continue to be safe. Yesterday a family member called to tell me that they saw AH jaywalking into busy traffic on a 6 lane road, that traffic stopped and had to wait for him to cross. I told them next time that it would be more productive to call the police and give a good description with his full name than it was to call me to tattle.
The boys are doing ok with the changes. I am stressed to the max about too many things and I am looking forward to a quiet weekend (please let this happen for me)
Thank you for all the kind words and advice! I do appreciate each and everyone of you. I will try to answer you each individually but I am limiting my internet time since he still has access to our accounts. I am in the process of changing all of these but let me tell you, it is a huge hassle!!! Wow!