Thanks for the advice Anna! I'm going to let him reserve an airbnb or hotel room. I don't have the money and honestly i'm pissed that he just expects me to "roll" with whatever he wants. He's a completely selfish ****. This is something i need to work on because i'm a people pleaser and i knew full and well this would happen months ago when he wanted to come out. I did want to say no because i'm going through a ton of "life stuff" right now but i know he's getting up there in age and felt bad saying no. Lord give me strength!