Bekindalways , thanks and yes, I have been making sure to do things for me. I go to the gym regularly. I actually joined a new gym last month so I could have a new experience. I find myself listening to ‘codependency no more’ while I’m on the treadmill. As I mention a lot in my posts, her words really help me keep things in perspective. I also rearranged some furniture in my house. May not seem like much, but reclaiming the space as mine and seeing the room differently makes me feel good. I have spent more times with friends that I haven’t seen in awhile. I didn’t realize how much I had pulled away from people. I had really turned into a home body. Lastly, I bought myself a hyacinth from Trader Joe’s for my birthday which was last week. I’m in cold snowy weather so watching it bloom has been nice!