Originally Posted by
oddsunflower 
He is going to kill himself with the drinking and he is taking our family down with him.
Well, the truth is that he has no power to do that unless you hand it to him. From your other thread and this, it seems that your life has become completely focused on his shenanigans, his words, his moods. This is a downward spiral, as you're experiencing. The only way to not go down with him is to take agency of your life, especially your emotional life. Your husband cannot take you anywhere unless
you go along with him.