six months and you are sure it's LOVE you feel? not wishful thinking of some emotion that really isn't present? because you also admit to feeling disappointed, let down, being lied to, him not being present.
you know where this is going. if you want to help someone get sober, then sponsor someone. i know that sounds harsh, but it's easy in early recovery (yours) to want to proselytize and spread the good news. but your BF is not a project.
why HIM?